
There’s an abundance of politeness going on around here – in Miami – that I’m not used to. People are nice in New York, so I am used to that, but in Miami, not so much, but in the past few days I’ve seen a lot of politeness.
I was at Panera Bread for lunch the other day – take out. And I came in and ordered at the place where you order your own stuff. As I walked to the pick up window, a girl that worked there asked if I needed any help. I told her I was waiting for my order.
Just then, a guy from behind the counter calls my name. I said, “It’s ready already? I just placed the order!” He laughed and said, “No, I just wanted to let you know we received your order and are working on it. Did you need anything else?”
Then, the girl who had asked me if I needed help, went table to table and refilled drinks for people. She would pick up their glasses and bring them to drink/soda machine and refill the glasses and return them to the tables. She did this with everyone who was sitting and eating. I never saw them do that before.
One of the managers who never said anything to me in the past, started talking to me, and it just felt weird, since this never was the way before. I guess they are hurting for business or something, and they went out of their way to be overly friendly.
Then at our condo building, three workers who came by for things were overly friendly, too. The elevator was broken, so the elevator guy came over to fix it, but before he came, the fire box guy came – the guy who attends to the fire alarm box, which is connected with the elevator.
I asked him if he was the elevator guy and he introduced himself and told me he was from the fire company and then explained what he was doing here. But he literally shook my hand and introduced himself.
When the elevator guy came, he introduced himself, shook my hand and I took him around the building to each floor to work on the elevator. He must have used the words, “please” and “thank you,” 100 times. He wanted me with him since the elevators open right into the units and he didn’t want to be in the units alone.
He would say, “Thank you for handing me the screwdriver,” “Thank you for helping me.” “Please would you hand me that thing over there?” And so on. He gave me his number and shook my hand coming and going and he was back twice and did all that politeness twice.
He told me how nice my apartment was, he liked it a lot. He complimented about the other units, too. He was very friendly as he muddled around in the elevator shaft.
After the elevator was fixed, we had a new neighbor moving in. When I came back from Panera, one of the moving men was at the elevator. He shook my hand, introduced himself as John, and made conversation.
The next day, the new neighbor moved in. I happened upon him early in the morning. We greeted each other, he extended his hand, introduced himself, we shook hands and that was a pleasant way to start the day.
I honestly don’t remember the last time there was this much politeness. I like it.
Till next time . . .

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